I have 2 friends who are married, and I met them through my Fiance as the man (lets call him D), works with my man. D and his wife (I'm calling her S) have become pretty good friends to us, and we've been going round each others houses, relaxing, having a laugh etc. You know, generally what friends do.
I found out recently that D has been having an affair behind S's back. My bloke told me because he felt he couldn't lie and keep it from me, but D doesn't know that I know. I suppose that "affair" is not really the right word. It was more of a one night stand, and he thought the girl would keep it to herself!! She didn't, and immediately told her boyfriend, who told everyone else. Surprise surprise.
Anyway, S doesn't know about the bit of skirt, and has been asking when we're all going to meet up again. I really want to meet up and hang out like we were before but I have no idea how to act around D. And I feel like I'm lying to S by not telling her, but by telling her it could really ruin her life, you know? She's so nice and down to earth, and I have just discovered how 2-faced her husband is, when I thought he was a decent guy.
I don't want to be all high and mighty about it, but I really feel that he is treating her like dirt and she doesn't even know it. I want to be friends, and I suppose I will just have to put it to the back of my mind or it will just grow into a monster. D will have to deal with it, but I'm pretty sure he's going to just brush it under the carpet and hope it doesn't come to light. I certainly don't want to be the one to tell!
So what do I do? I can't very well ignore him... help!!